The Four Wives

July 13th, 2008 by andrewthfoo

Once upon a time there was a rich king who had four wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to the finest of delicacies. He gave her nothing but the best. He also loves the 3rd wife very much and was always showing her off to the neighbouring kingdoms. However, he feared that one day she would love him for another. He also loved his 2nd wife. She was his confidant and was always so kind, considerate and patient with him. Whenever the King faced a problem, he could confide in he, and she would help him get through the difficult times. The King’s 1st wife was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and kingdom. However, he did not love his first wife. Although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the king gets ill and he knew his time was short. He thought of his luxurious life and wondered, “I now have four wives with me, but when I die, I’ll be all alone.” Thus, he asked the 4th wife, “I have loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me & keep me company?” “No way!” replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word. Her answer cut like a sharp knife right into his heart.

The sad king then asked the 3rd wife, “I have loved you all my life. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No!” replied the 3rd wife. Life is too good! When you die, I’m going to remarry!” His heart sank and turned cold. He then asked the 2nd wife, “I have always turned to you for help and you’re always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?” “I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!” replied the 2nd wife. “At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.” Her answer struck him like a bolt of lighting, and the king was devastated.

Then a voice called out: “I’ll go with you. I’ll follow you no matter where you go.” The king looked up, and there was his first wife. She was very skinny as she suffered from malnutrition and neglect. Greatly grieved, the king said, “I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!”

In truth, we all have the 4 wives in our lives. Our 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making look good, it will leave us when we die. Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, it will all go to others. Our 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for us, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave. And our 1st wife is our soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world. However, our soul is the only thing that will follow us whenever we go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of us that will follow us to the throne of God and continue with us throughout Eternity.

Author unknown

最理想的

June 25th, 2008 by andrewthfoo

曾经收过此电邮转发…
在此跟大家分享…

若有一天…
你驾一辆车…
你车里刚好只能载一个人…
路旁有三个人在等车……

第一个是曾经救过你的医生…
你一生都想找机会回报他…
第二个是一个病危的人…
再不去得到适当的治疗…
就快失去生命…
第三个是你梦中情人…
一位你一生想娶/嫁的对象…
次时错过了他…
就无法和他在一起…
就会后悔一辈子…

但偏偏你的车只能载一个人…
到底要选谁呢?

选医生…
就牺牲那病人的性命…
也失去了爱情…

选病人…
救到了他的命…
但不知道要等到何时…
才能报答医生救命之恩…
也失去了爱情…

选梦中情人…
也不知何时才能报答医生救命之恩…
也牺牲了那病人的性命…

究竟要如何做决定呢?

其实…
最理想的结局…
是把你的车匙交给医生…
让他把病人载去医院求医…
知己呢…
就和梦中情人…
一起等车…

故事的启示:
要达到完美理想的结局…
就要舍弃现有的东西…

现在

June 25th, 2008 by andrewthfoo

过去如何…
不重要…

最重要的是…
现在你快乐…

最理想的结局…
只要你快乐…

越河二记

June 18th, 2008 by andrewthfoo

又越河了…
还是无法取得认同…
没办法…
有个道理…
吃谁的饭…
就要讲谁的话…
一点都没错…

不是不懂…
只是装不懂…
这个场合…
要下此对策…

血气方刚…
但比上一回好多了…
至少可攻也可退了…

球不是单方面踢的…
既然可以用来攻击对方…
当然也要准备被对方攻…
不让了…

也许是这样…
多了些苦头…
不要为了取胜…
而处处刁难…
要胜的…
是大众的心服和口服…

又要伤脑筋了…
没办法…
看来不久…
还需要再越河…

June 3rd, 2008 by andrewthfoo

试一下…
把图拼一拼…
拼啊拼…
转眼间…
一周就这样过了…

怎么还看不到图案…
拼错了?…
拼出来了…
也不知是否…
是对的图案…

好庆幸…
这并不是…
拼图比赛…
若是比赛…
结果会是如何呢?…

为何还要坚持?…
也许又是…
老毛病发…
又是为了要证明吧…

无论如何…
不管图案…
是否会一目了然…
拭目以待吧…

再了然…
若不懂得欣赏…
也只不过是…
普同的拼图罢了

越河记

May 23rd, 2008 by andrewthfoo

有点乱…
不…
应该是…
真的很乱…

时间很长…
不急…
为何要…
互不相让…
争先恐后呢?
真奇怪…
又不是有奖拿啦…
是要想抢风头吗?…
看谁先把晚悲难倒…
就是谁比较厉害…

拜托啦…
一个问题还没问完…
另一个竟然插嘴…
问另一个假想题…
要怎样答诸位呢…

倒转回来…
倒不如形容要的是什么…
直接一点…
那不是更好吗?…
一个人一个意见…
那三个人有几个意见呢?…

两个长辈"欺负"一个晚辈…
有没有搞错喔…
哈哈…新的经历…
另一个体验…
上了宝贵的一课…

无论如何…
不妄此行…
要为这一课…
交出点成绩…

后记

May 23rd, 2008 by andrewthfoo

不可思议…
竟然…
以往都不曾这样…
希望不要有下一次…

沉默不语…
不是要逃避…
而是不想伤害…
未来还是要合作…

希望下一次…
要努力…
把问题尽快解决…
不要再当炮灰了…
能做的…
已做到最好了…
希望明白…

至于…
不管…
真的还是假的不知…
快采取行动吧…
雨过刚天晴…
不代表…
不会再有暴风雨…

这是人造雨…
若不要被淋湿…
就不要造雨…

怎么了

May 21st, 2008 by andrewthfoo

发生了什么事…
需要把事情闹大…
有那么严重吗?

任务…
不就只是…
把一切…
安排妥当吗?
还是…
鸡蛋里挑骨头…

不回…
就被认在逃避…
回了…
再好的解决方法…
也无法完全被接纳…

分明…
不是解决问题…
分明…
是在寻找问题…

正确的处理方法…
是大事化小…
小事化无…
分明是小事搞大…

希望会是有建设的…
而不是浪费时间的…
但可以预测结局了…

还是很期待…
为何要期待?…
真可笑…
不是能免则免吗?
只是想…
再证明多一次…
预测的…
是对的…

好期待

May 21st, 2008 by andrewthfoo

有点不安…
但还蛮期待的…
不管怎样…
要冷静…

不代表不回应…
若有必要…
定会辩护…
不会攻击…

希望…
可以尽快…
海阔天空…

妈…生日快乐

April 8th, 2008 by andrewthfoo

过了十二点…
妈妈又老一岁了…
妈妈…
祝你身体健康…
愿主赐给你平安与喜乐…

妈妈…我爱你…